The German Government is trying to make me pay for child support money?
My wife left me when I got deployed to Iraq and took my child with her. She filed for child support money in Germany while I was deployed in Iraq. The German Government now wants me to pay for her taking that money and they sent someone to the U.S. to collect, all of this while my daughter was taken illegally while I was deployed, and when she took off she took all of my money in my bank account as well, I couldn't even stop my bank account until I got back to the United States for technical communication reasons. Anyway, do I have a fighting chance at this... to be honest, I'm not paying the German Government for that money that my wife filed for when she was being taken care of by me through the military she was living on military housing, and we had a secure paycheck each month. She left for her own selfish reasons, and now they want me to pay for a mistake she made. I'd rather go to prison, I don't care. This is just not right at all. I will stand up for what I believe in. I don't have the money for a lawyer that's the only bad thing about this. Help me out. I'm sure you've heard of foreigners fleeing the country after or during marriage and sometimes taking children with them while soldiers get deployed.
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I don't know the answers to all your questions, but you should be able to get legal council through the Army/Military. Go through your chain of command, they SHOULD help you in this.
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You def need to go to jag so they can tell you how to go about handling this. YOu will probably need to get a lawyer as well, since this will be tricky dealing with 2 countries.
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This happened to my next door neighbor. He married this German bitch, and as soon as his boots left the ground, she took all his money, and the kids, and went home to her moms. First, you need to go to legal aid, and see what they can do. Also, I hate to say it, but I would make sure that the child is in fact yours. See about getting a DNA test. (If she was sorry enough to leave you like that, then cheating is not a far stretch, you know?) If she is jobless, you could fight for custody. Go talk to legal aid, and see what your rights, and options are. Good luck!
