Lap dancing in night clubs in Germany as a job,what do you think?
Since last year many people closed to me are telling me that i should go dancing in Germany in night clubs because i can do good money there..up to 10000euro on month...I know someone that is already working in Stuttgard and she told me that she did at her best 7000euro and at her bad months 2500euro.. The problem is that i don't imagine myself having a life like this..or having this kind of jobs in my past..I prefer to do something else to make money but by having a decent life and not one that i am ashamed of because people judge u by this kind of jobs and i don't want to ruin my future ,and maybe loose people i care about in future..i don't know maybe a husband or friends etc. What makes me mad also is that this advices comes from the girl that a thought to be my friend..she was telling me this like is the best thing i should do for money,like she would do this for money but in reality she never has the courage to do it herself and also my boyfriend which is my bf for 5 years now..he thinks modern but..i don't want this kind of advices from them.. I have open mind but What do u think i should do?The money i could earn there make me think like is an opportunity but i am more realistic,i don't want to ruin my future and my opportunities..i don't feel like is something i should do for money ...i don't know if u understand what i want to say..but i will come with replies to your answers... P.S-i am 25 years,i have finished a management university..i worked in jobs in bank..or as a manager..for short time but i see myself having a decent life..i would work on cruise ships as waiter or something else than doing dances..even if i earn less...and i see myself in this decent kind of jobs and life..i know is hard now to find a job...which currently i don't have this is why i think about opportunities I am also an european woman..so maybe the sites u gave won't help me that much,but i will check them.Thank you. And yes i know that once i begun this kind of job is hard to get out ..is one of the reasons i don't want to accept this kind of job dor my own life... I am also an european woman..so maybe the sites u gave won't help me that much,but i will check them.Thank you. And yes i know that once i begun this kind of job is hard to get out ..is one of the reasons i don't want to accept this kind of job dor my own life...
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It's very hard to leave the dancer's life once you start. Keep that in mind.
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Do not go for any job you are not comfortable with. You would hate yourself if you did do it. And what is more, you would keep hating yourself if you do it even for a short time and it works out that you hate it. If you think you will go back to your real profession, a period as dancer, or a period that is not there in your CV will hurt your chances at any job, the better the job, the more it would hurt. If your boyfriend wants you to do strip dancing for money, kick him out. Or have him go strip dancing for money first and for a few years. I would not be surpriced if he would say that he does not mind you being a nude or strip dancer, but would let you down soon after you started doing it. And if that old friend has no better advice, find a better friend. Those sites are spam, ignore them and certainly do not send them personal information. As it is spam it is likely to be deleted some time soon. If you want to use sites like the ones that where spammed here, search on jobs and your country, in the local language by preference.
