get help for my mother whos being beaten in germany, if im in the u.s?
this is really long, but i need help please. im freaking out, crying. and i have no idea what to do. my mom and dad divorced because he was cheating on her for 15 years, and she met this guy on line and they "fell in love" she went there to stay with him in december and hasnt came back since. he wont let her leave, she was supposed to come back in july before my birthday. she said that she couldnt because they missed a plane and would come out later, now i understand that hes going to try to keep her. she calls when hes sleeping crying to my grandma about how he beats her all the time, he wont let her leave, he fucking lets her starve, he kicks her out at night and makes her sleep outside for no reaosn, hes tried choking her in her sleep, hes fucking crazy. he played out a whole act the whole time they talked online; i know this seems like a movie, and fake. but its true,. my mom and i never got along and i "hated her" but i wouldnt be able to stand it if i lost her, i know she was always being fucked over her whole life, i feel so bad. she doesnt deserve to die and this guys a fucking creeper, hes going to do something and i need help now. i really want to know how i could talk to someone out in germany that speaks english, so they could understand me and help her get back here. i miss her, my family misses her, but nobody trying hard enough, this is my mother and i need to try, if it wasnt for her i wouldnt be here and please someone help me., i dont know what to do anymore, and i know i could probably never see her again, and i dont want to regret not trying, please help me someone. we cant even make enough money to get her back, but hse has a passport im just hoping there are the right people out there that can help her for now until we make the money, this guy thats hurting her, he doesnt understand what the fuck hes doing. its my mother he took from me, and hes trying to kill her. i hate him, i really do. i would risk my life just to know that i punched him in the face, i want my mom back here.
Law Enforcement & Police - 3 Answers
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why hasn't your mom called the police? most people in germany speak english to some degree. also you may want to tell her to contact the american embassy in germany if she is a US citizen
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GIIIRLLL!! you need to pick up the phone and call the police, just beacuse shes not in the u.s. does not mean they cant do anything. its in your hands to be the bigger person and pick up the phone. your moms life is on the line. and in your hands.
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take my advice i anwsered your questions and sent email
Friday, June 28, 2013
Friday, June 14, 2013
How can I save money?
How can I save money?
well i am part time student and I have a job at starbucks and get paid $8.80 an hour. I have couple of payments that I have to make each month so it will cost me around $100. then the rest of the money is mine I guess. but I dont feel that I have that much I have around 400 dollars in my account. my plan is to go germany next summer so How can I save money
Personal Finance - 5 Answers
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Put money in your savings account, if you don't have one create one. It'll help you save money and make sure you don't take money off your saving account unless it is REALLY important!
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When you pay your bills, the couple of payments you mentioned, make one more payment to a savings account. Also, set up a budget. Write down where every penny goes and you can see possible ways to save for your trip. Good luck and I hope this helps.
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Definitely put your money into a savings account, and don't take any out unless you absolutely have to. Also, when you reach around $1000, you could open a cd (certificate of deposit), which would help you earn more interest. . Credit unions generally have better rates on this than banks do, and they have people there that might even suggest other things to do so you can go on that trip to germany.
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Follow a simple rule; avoid spending on unnecessary things. Set a target for savings, ideal would be 10% of your income (this is what i do personally). Get control over your financial transactions- track every dollar earned and dollar spent.If you don't already have a small emergency fund, you should put the money into a savings account to cover emergencies. And if it's ok with you, you could use one of the financial management tools like http://rudder.com/tour/budget-calculator.aspx
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1. I say clip coupons all the time and buy sale items. I once helped my family turn a $200 grocery bill into a $80 bill for scan and clipping coupons. trust me it is worth it. 2. Put all coins in a jar then cash them in. 3. Buy out off season clothes for cheap at places like plato's closet 4. research sales online 5.research the lowest gas prices in your area ( don't have to anymore) 6. have a set amount you put away if you have a job like 15% 7. set financial goals
well i am part time student and I have a job at starbucks and get paid $8.80 an hour. I have couple of payments that I have to make each month so it will cost me around $100. then the rest of the money is mine I guess. but I dont feel that I have that much I have around 400 dollars in my account. my plan is to go germany next summer so How can I save money
Personal Finance - 5 Answers
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1 :
Put money in your savings account, if you don't have one create one. It'll help you save money and make sure you don't take money off your saving account unless it is REALLY important!
2 :
When you pay your bills, the couple of payments you mentioned, make one more payment to a savings account. Also, set up a budget. Write down where every penny goes and you can see possible ways to save for your trip. Good luck and I hope this helps.
3 :
Definitely put your money into a savings account, and don't take any out unless you absolutely have to. Also, when you reach around $1000, you could open a cd (certificate of deposit), which would help you earn more interest. . Credit unions generally have better rates on this than banks do, and they have people there that might even suggest other things to do so you can go on that trip to germany.
4 :
Follow a simple rule; avoid spending on unnecessary things. Set a target for savings, ideal would be 10% of your income (this is what i do personally). Get control over your financial transactions- track every dollar earned and dollar spent.If you don't already have a small emergency fund, you should put the money into a savings account to cover emergencies. And if it's ok with you, you could use one of the financial management tools like http://rudder.com/tour/budget-calculator.aspx
5 :
1. I say clip coupons all the time and buy sale items. I once helped my family turn a $200 grocery bill into a $80 bill for scan and clipping coupons. trust me it is worth it. 2. Put all coins in a jar then cash them in. 3. Buy out off season clothes for cheap at places like plato's closet 4. research sales online 5.research the lowest gas prices in your area ( don't have to anymore) 6. have a set amount you put away if you have a job like 15% 7. set financial goals
Friday, June 7, 2013
my girlfriend came last year from germany to the usa ---to visit me .she met a guy and married him.?
my girlfriend came last year from germany to the usa ---to visit me .she met a guy and married him.?
then she went back to germany to make plans to sell all her stoff or for him to come and live in germany..plans changed,after she found out -that as soon as she left to go back to germany-he went to live again with his EX--and not only that,but she also was having a baby from him.well now 5 month later ,she was ready to come back to the staates to get everything straight with him or get a divorce.she only made it half way here,because the people at the airport searched her belongins and found her marriage-certificate.to make a long story short,they esscordet her back in a plane to germany.they told her,that she needs a different visa to come to the usa---which cost her money again!!!that she don`t have.now---my question---can she get a divorce from germany ???and can she come with a regular visitor visa to visit me ---??
Singles & Dating - 4 Answers
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why would you want her to visit you!? thats heartbreaking, she came to visit you, met a different guy, and married him!? why would you take her back?
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I wish I could give you simple advice but the truth is that your friend's problems are a blend of immigtration and citizenship as well as live-in love problems. She truly needs a lawyer versed in immigration. I know the money is tight but she has a right to some form of support for her baby from this loser she dated and only a lawyer could sort that out.
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i think she can come on a visitor visa!? but i don't think she can get a divorce from there!
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maybe not because she is married to one in the US.. should be a spouse visa.. i think.. u can probably search that online..
then she went back to germany to make plans to sell all her stoff or for him to come and live in germany..plans changed,after she found out -that as soon as she left to go back to germany-he went to live again with his EX--and not only that,but she also was having a baby from him.well now 5 month later ,she was ready to come back to the staates to get everything straight with him or get a divorce.she only made it half way here,because the people at the airport searched her belongins and found her marriage-certificate.to make a long story short,they esscordet her back in a plane to germany.they told her,that she needs a different visa to come to the usa---which cost her money again!!!that she don`t have.now---my question---can she get a divorce from germany ???and can she come with a regular visitor visa to visit me ---??
Singles & Dating - 4 Answers
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why would you want her to visit you!? thats heartbreaking, she came to visit you, met a different guy, and married him!? why would you take her back?
2 :
I wish I could give you simple advice but the truth is that your friend's problems are a blend of immigtration and citizenship as well as live-in love problems. She truly needs a lawyer versed in immigration. I know the money is tight but she has a right to some form of support for her baby from this loser she dated and only a lawyer could sort that out.
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i think she can come on a visitor visa!? but i don't think she can get a divorce from there!
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maybe not because she is married to one in the US.. should be a spouse visa.. i think.. u can probably search that online..
Saturday, June 1, 2013
Wouldn't it make sense to remove all Troops from Non-Combat Foreign Posts,for long term savings to taxpayers?
Wouldn't it make sense to remove all Troops from Non-Combat Foreign Posts,for long term savings to taxpayers?
Germany Japan S. Korea And on and on,bring them home.Why waste our money keeping Troops there,let them pay for their own Troops if they need them.
Politics - 16 Answers
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That would be a great idea, until we looked around and realized that Russia, China, and the United States were the only three countries left in the world.
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It would be good for our economy, but our allies may not like it. I say who cares what anyone else thinks because when it comes right down to it the only person who has your best interests at heart is you.
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Yes. The Constitution does not Grant the power of the Federal government to base American troops on foreign soil... As any conservative constructionist knows, only the states can do this...
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That's not why they're there. Troops are in Germany in case Russia starts being stupid. Japan and South Korea in case North Korea starts being stupid.
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I think so, but when I've said that, people have made some good arguments for keeping them all around the world. Some have said they need to be in non-domestic posts in case we need to deploy them to a place where violence pops up. Sounds plausible.
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Technically, the ones in South Korea are not non-Combat posts, since the war never officially ended.
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Whimsy- Bases in foreign countries are American soil. No it wouldn't make sense in the long run, those bases are used every day to support combat areas.
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And what kind of jobs are here for them to do when they all get back? Savings to taxpayers? I think not.
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the reason our troops are still there is the reason that there all non combat areas, once there all gone, things change. our troops are in these areas to let the other side know that we can strike and hit em hard within a hours notice anytime we want to, 24/7/365 the bases in korea/japan are there not to protect these countries but to let the russians and chinese know that were right next door, as far as germany that's a short flight to moscow/st, petersburge the day we move out of thee bases is the day the far left get some balls and make trouble again.
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It would actually cost the taxpayers of this country a LOT less to close down every single foreign military base, and build 2-3 dozen nuclear aircraft carrier tasks forces to patrol the world's hot spots from international waters instead. Imagine that for a moment...... 24 nuclear powered Ronald Reagan size aircraft carriers with the most technologically advanced aircraft and weapondry on the face of the planet, plus support vessles, patrolling the world's oceans without a single US footprint on foreign soil. Sounds good to me.
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Meant to be more of a deterrent than anything, but yeah. I think the US likes having this kind of control in those countries.
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I'm undecided on this. Partly because Germany for example is used as a forward staging and training ground for our troops. It's closer to where the action is in Afghanistan for instance. While I was there the majority of Germans wanted us to stay for various reasons, economic being one of them. South Korea? I'm not sure we can leave without the area blowing up. Now would I like to bring the troops home? Yes. I have family in the combat zone right now.
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Germany and Japan, yes. S. Korea, unfortunately, no.
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Yes! Definitely! & also to honor a tradition of not getting embroiled in foreign entanglements.
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Actually, the bases the US maintains in Europe are arguably the most useful. Mostly because there we hold troops that train to fight effectively with our NATO allies. Moreover, we make it possible for Europe having a civilized relationship with Russia (which is in our economic and political interest) because if Russia moves, we hit them. If Europe moves, we pull the plug and let them fend for themselves. We have a vested interest in guaranteeing the sovereignty of our allies, Japan and South Korea. Either we let the Japanese have an actual army, or we protect their asses. South Korea can theoretically fend for itself, so we could scrap our bases there. We can reach it in a day from Japan, where we hold bases, so what's the need for bases on Korea?
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Before ICBMs with nuclear weapons, I would have said no. That that we can defend the US without those bases, yes.
Germany Japan S. Korea And on and on,bring them home.Why waste our money keeping Troops there,let them pay for their own Troops if they need them.
Politics - 16 Answers
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1 :
That would be a great idea, until we looked around and realized that Russia, China, and the United States were the only three countries left in the world.
2 :
It would be good for our economy, but our allies may not like it. I say who cares what anyone else thinks because when it comes right down to it the only person who has your best interests at heart is you.
3 :
Yes. The Constitution does not Grant the power of the Federal government to base American troops on foreign soil... As any conservative constructionist knows, only the states can do this...
4 :
That's not why they're there. Troops are in Germany in case Russia starts being stupid. Japan and South Korea in case North Korea starts being stupid.
5 :
I think so, but when I've said that, people have made some good arguments for keeping them all around the world. Some have said they need to be in non-domestic posts in case we need to deploy them to a place where violence pops up. Sounds plausible.
6 :
Technically, the ones in South Korea are not non-Combat posts, since the war never officially ended.
7 :
Whimsy- Bases in foreign countries are American soil. No it wouldn't make sense in the long run, those bases are used every day to support combat areas.
8 :
And what kind of jobs are here for them to do when they all get back? Savings to taxpayers? I think not.
9 :
the reason our troops are still there is the reason that there all non combat areas, once there all gone, things change. our troops are in these areas to let the other side know that we can strike and hit em hard within a hours notice anytime we want to, 24/7/365 the bases in korea/japan are there not to protect these countries but to let the russians and chinese know that were right next door, as far as germany that's a short flight to moscow/st, petersburge the day we move out of thee bases is the day the far left get some balls and make trouble again.
10 :
It would actually cost the taxpayers of this country a LOT less to close down every single foreign military base, and build 2-3 dozen nuclear aircraft carrier tasks forces to patrol the world's hot spots from international waters instead. Imagine that for a moment...... 24 nuclear powered Ronald Reagan size aircraft carriers with the most technologically advanced aircraft and weapondry on the face of the planet, plus support vessles, patrolling the world's oceans without a single US footprint on foreign soil. Sounds good to me.
11 :
Meant to be more of a deterrent than anything, but yeah. I think the US likes having this kind of control in those countries.
12 :
I'm undecided on this. Partly because Germany for example is used as a forward staging and training ground for our troops. It's closer to where the action is in Afghanistan for instance. While I was there the majority of Germans wanted us to stay for various reasons, economic being one of them. South Korea? I'm not sure we can leave without the area blowing up. Now would I like to bring the troops home? Yes. I have family in the combat zone right now.
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Germany and Japan, yes. S. Korea, unfortunately, no.
14 :
Yes! Definitely! & also to honor a tradition of not getting embroiled in foreign entanglements.
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Actually, the bases the US maintains in Europe are arguably the most useful. Mostly because there we hold troops that train to fight effectively with our NATO allies. Moreover, we make it possible for Europe having a civilized relationship with Russia (which is in our economic and political interest) because if Russia moves, we hit them. If Europe moves, we pull the plug and let them fend for themselves. We have a vested interest in guaranteeing the sovereignty of our allies, Japan and South Korea. Either we let the Japanese have an actual army, or we protect their asses. South Korea can theoretically fend for itself, so we could scrap our bases there. We can reach it in a day from Japan, where we hold bases, so what's the need for bases on Korea?
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Before ICBMs with nuclear weapons, I would have said no. That that we can defend the US without those bases, yes.
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