The German Government is trying to make me pay for child support money?
My wife left me when I got deployed to Iraq and took my child with her. She filed for child support money in Germany while I was deployed in Iraq. The German Government now wants me to pay for her taking that money and they sent someone to the U.S. to collect, all of this while my daughter was taken illegally while I was deployed, and when she took off she took all of my money in my bank account as well, I couldn't even stop my bank account until I got back to the United States for technical communication reasons. Anyway, do I have a fighting chance at this... to be honest, I'm not paying the German Government for that money that my wife filed for when she was being taken care of by me through the military she was living on military housing, and we had a secure paycheck each month. She left for her own selfish reasons, and now they want me to pay for a mistake she made. I'd rather go to prison, I don't care. This is just not right at all. I will stand up for what I believe in. I don't have the money for a lawyer that's the only bad thing about this. Help me out. I'm sure you've heard of foreigners fleeing the country after or during marriage and sometimes taking children with them while soldiers get deployed.
Military - 3 Answers
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I don't know the answers to all your questions, but you should be able to get legal council through the Army/Military. Go through your chain of command, they SHOULD help you in this.
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You def need to go to jag so they can tell you how to go about handling this. YOu will probably need to get a lawyer as well, since this will be tricky dealing with 2 countries.
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This happened to my next door neighbor. He married this German bitch, and as soon as his boots left the ground, she took all his money, and the kids, and went home to her moms. First, you need to go to legal aid, and see what they can do. Also, I hate to say it, but I would make sure that the child is in fact yours. See about getting a DNA test. (If she was sorry enough to leave you like that, then cheating is not a far stretch, you know?) If she is jobless, you could fight for custody. Go talk to legal aid, and see what your rights, and options are. Good luck!
Friday, October 14, 2011
Friday, October 7, 2011
I am trying to figure out how much American money I need to save for a trip to Germany.?
I am trying to figure out how much American money I need to save for a trip to Germany.?
I am going for 10 days and will be staying with friends on an American military base in Schweinfurt. We will probably make a one or two day trip to Munich while I'm there. I am curious about what the average expenditures (food, maybe a sight-seeing tour or two) cost.
Other - United States - 6 Answers
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At least 4000.00
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The plane tickets should be cheaper with all the inflation... I've heard that on the news and business experts... Usually I've experienced that plane tickets will run ya up to $2000.00 or lower standard plane ticket price, with inflation travel cost should be much cheaper!! according to washington's local news there are some benefits to these times. I know i'm take full advantage of this opportunity in june, fly to south korea to go see me mom, lol. pick me as best answer =P, Blake
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I would have about $1000, while that may seem high consider the exchange rate for dollars to euros. Here's a link:http://www.x-rates.com/ You might want to invest in traveler's checks instead of carrying cash. Here's a link for them: http://www10.americanexpress.com/sif/cda/page/0,1641,23075,00.asp Enjoy your visit.
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probably should have around 3000.00 for airfare and food, etc..
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With Airfare? Or is Airfare already included? Airfare I would plan on spending anywhere from $1000- $2000 round trip. Food, sight-seeing etc., if you are trying to make the trip inexpensive you can make it in Germany for 10 days with $500 - $600 Euro. But to be safe I would plan on saving anywhere from $1000 - $1500 depending on how extravange your spending is. REMINDER - Europe requires coins to use the public restrooms, no one told me that when I went and I had to learn how to ask for change for 1 Euro in French. Not fun to do when you have to go to the bathroom after a lot of travel.
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I would start by checking plane fares to get an idea of how much it will cost for your biggest expense. Keep in mind that it is often cheaper to fly into London first and take a connecting plane from London to Germany than it would be to fly to Germany directly (this is true with almost anywhere in Europe...London flights are cheaper because it is a major hub). Then I would figure out how many meals I would be paying for, and how many nights of lodging I'd be paying for, and what kind of transportation I'd need. Then I would figure out how much it would cost me to do these things here in America and then triple the figure to give me a general estimate of what I money should bring. Why triple the figure? Because the Euro is 1 1/2 to 2 times the value of the dollar right now plus I'd want a cushion. One additional thing you could do to be sure if your numbers were right would be to ask your friends who are there what the prices are in Euros for certain items and see how they compare to prices you are used to in dollars. Then add a cushion amount. Keep in mind to add a little more if you plan on buying souvenirs, going to a special event, or want to take your friends out to dinner as a thank you. Hope that gets you started!
I am going for 10 days and will be staying with friends on an American military base in Schweinfurt. We will probably make a one or two day trip to Munich while I'm there. I am curious about what the average expenditures (food, maybe a sight-seeing tour or two) cost.
Other - United States - 6 Answers
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At least 4000.00
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The plane tickets should be cheaper with all the inflation... I've heard that on the news and business experts... Usually I've experienced that plane tickets will run ya up to $2000.00 or lower standard plane ticket price, with inflation travel cost should be much cheaper!! according to washington's local news there are some benefits to these times. I know i'm take full advantage of this opportunity in june, fly to south korea to go see me mom, lol. pick me as best answer =P, Blake
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I would have about $1000, while that may seem high consider the exchange rate for dollars to euros. Here's a link:http://www.x-rates.com/ You might want to invest in traveler's checks instead of carrying cash. Here's a link for them: http://www10.americanexpress.com/sif/cda/page/0,1641,23075,00.asp Enjoy your visit.
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probably should have around 3000.00 for airfare and food, etc..
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With Airfare? Or is Airfare already included? Airfare I would plan on spending anywhere from $1000- $2000 round trip. Food, sight-seeing etc., if you are trying to make the trip inexpensive you can make it in Germany for 10 days with $500 - $600 Euro. But to be safe I would plan on saving anywhere from $1000 - $1500 depending on how extravange your spending is. REMINDER - Europe requires coins to use the public restrooms, no one told me that when I went and I had to learn how to ask for change for 1 Euro in French. Not fun to do when you have to go to the bathroom after a lot of travel.
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I would start by checking plane fares to get an idea of how much it will cost for your biggest expense. Keep in mind that it is often cheaper to fly into London first and take a connecting plane from London to Germany than it would be to fly to Germany directly (this is true with almost anywhere in Europe...London flights are cheaper because it is a major hub). Then I would figure out how many meals I would be paying for, and how many nights of lodging I'd be paying for, and what kind of transportation I'd need. Then I would figure out how much it would cost me to do these things here in America and then triple the figure to give me a general estimate of what I money should bring. Why triple the figure? Because the Euro is 1 1/2 to 2 times the value of the dollar right now plus I'd want a cushion. One additional thing you could do to be sure if your numbers were right would be to ask your friends who are there what the prices are in Euros for certain items and see how they compare to prices you are used to in dollars. Then add a cushion amount. Keep in mind to add a little more if you plan on buying souvenirs, going to a special event, or want to take your friends out to dinner as a thank you. Hope that gets you started!
Saturday, October 1, 2011
What can I do to fund raise money?
What can I do to fund raise money?
Help! I joined this international group where you meet ppl all over the world & learn bout culture & etc. We have meetings like 2 times a year & i promised my friend i would try everything I could to make it to Germany next year for our 2010 2week seminar/meeting & i want to make it to our 2009 Christmas meeting this yr in Florida for the international group....I need ideas on how to fund-raise some money.
Polls & Surveys - 1 Answers
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sell jewelary..home made foods..
Help! I joined this international group where you meet ppl all over the world & learn bout culture & etc. We have meetings like 2 times a year & i promised my friend i would try everything I could to make it to Germany next year for our 2010 2week seminar/meeting & i want to make it to our 2009 Christmas meeting this yr in Florida for the international group....I need ideas on how to fund-raise some money.
Polls & Surveys - 1 Answers
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sell jewelary..home made foods..
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
My husband and I are stuck in Germany and want to come home to the states. We need money!!! Where can we go???
My husband and I are stuck in Germany and want to come home to the states. We need money!!! Where can we go???
We came over here (Germany) to help my husband sick Uncle with his horse farm. Now that he has recovered from his hip surgery he is making life very miserable for us. We do not have money to ship our household good back to the states and need help monetarily to do so. How can we get enough to ship household goods back to the states and find a place to live until we find jobs and get our first paychecks. We are losing our sanity and if we knew then what we know now we would have NEVER came over to help. Our lives our under constant servalence by them every minute of every day. We have to ask permission to use the car, to mow the yard, to breathe practically, and we are slowly slipping out of our sanity and if we had the money to go back to the states we could gain our sanity and join the rest of the work force in the free-world of the US. If any one knows where we can get that help please let us know. Thanks!
Personal Finance - 5 Answers
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That sucks. Man I dunno...can you get a random job in town or what? Washing dishes? Basically spend day and night working to get the hell outta there!
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go to bank and say show me the money
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go to the American conslut in Germany..Gießener Str. 30 60435 Frankfurt,Or call American Citizen Services Routine calls: (030) 832-9233, 2-4 pm, Monday through Friday. Emergencies only: (030) 8305-0 l
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Wow, you word it as if Germany isn't a free country! How did you get to Germany in the first place, it's pretty much the same deal but reverse. (Yes I know, I've moved from many countries back and forth and am about to move back to the states in three months from Holland). I recommend going to the American Consulate. They are there to help you! If shipping seems too expensive the only option is to sell your household goods and start over in the states. I just went through about 20 movers to get the best price for my move and ended up hiring a shipping company. To keep the costs at a minimum I'm packing myself and unloading myself. Keep in mind you do have to have someone load the container for you otherwise your goods are not insurable. Good luck!
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-any rich/loving family in the USA? try looking up a phone number for western union and calling them about international transfers. -How about contacting the nearest US embassy? -Say: screw my household items I need to get home, and LEAVE. -Honestly though, it sounds like you aren't really from the states and want to move here.... Which would make things a lot trickier.
We came over here (Germany) to help my husband sick Uncle with his horse farm. Now that he has recovered from his hip surgery he is making life very miserable for us. We do not have money to ship our household good back to the states and need help monetarily to do so. How can we get enough to ship household goods back to the states and find a place to live until we find jobs and get our first paychecks. We are losing our sanity and if we knew then what we know now we would have NEVER came over to help. Our lives our under constant servalence by them every minute of every day. We have to ask permission to use the car, to mow the yard, to breathe practically, and we are slowly slipping out of our sanity and if we had the money to go back to the states we could gain our sanity and join the rest of the work force in the free-world of the US. If any one knows where we can get that help please let us know. Thanks!
Personal Finance - 5 Answers
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That sucks. Man I dunno...can you get a random job in town or what? Washing dishes? Basically spend day and night working to get the hell outta there!
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go to bank and say show me the money
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go to the American conslut in Germany..Gießener Str. 30 60435 Frankfurt,Or call American Citizen Services Routine calls: (030) 832-9233, 2-4 pm, Monday through Friday. Emergencies only: (030) 8305-0 l
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Wow, you word it as if Germany isn't a free country! How did you get to Germany in the first place, it's pretty much the same deal but reverse. (Yes I know, I've moved from many countries back and forth and am about to move back to the states in three months from Holland). I recommend going to the American Consulate. They are there to help you! If shipping seems too expensive the only option is to sell your household goods and start over in the states. I just went through about 20 movers to get the best price for my move and ended up hiring a shipping company. To keep the costs at a minimum I'm packing myself and unloading myself. Keep in mind you do have to have someone load the container for you otherwise your goods are not insurable. Good luck!
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-any rich/loving family in the USA? try looking up a phone number for western union and calling them about international transfers. -How about contacting the nearest US embassy? -Say: screw my household items I need to get home, and LEAVE. -Honestly though, it sounds like you aren't really from the states and want to move here.... Which would make things a lot trickier.
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
What would it take for me to disappear to Germany and forget about the States?
What would it take for me to disappear to Germany and forget about the States?
I know it would take money, but what about becoming nationalized, finding a job, etc.? I've never been, but I want to start a new life in a foreign country. I've been speaking German for nearly 7 years, and in 3 years I'll have my bachelors degree in German with teaching certification. From there, how do I make the move to Germany and get started fresh? And what if I have a cat? Thanks.
Other - Europe - 3 Answers
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Do you want to teach German in Germany? Do you have a grandparent that came from Europe? If so you came become a citizen of the EU.
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Travel there for a long period of time first. I'm talking like a month or more. Learn about the government, politics, LOCAL culture, economy, food, etc. etc. before you make the final decision. The language is the biggest barrier, and you've already mastered that. You'll love it, I guarantee it. To become a citizen, first you have to live there for eight years, seven if you take a course in integration. Also, you have to have little to no criminal record, be fluent in German, and have a job set up so you can support yourself. May I recommend Munich, the capital of Bavaria? Bavaria is what you would "think of" when you think of Germany. Mountains, cows and goats grazing on huge pastures, yodelers, accordions, beer, bratwurst, VERY friendly people, and beautiful countryside. Yet Munich is a huge, medieval city with many opportunities for a huge income, just like life in a huge American city.
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As a US citizen, you can come to Germany and stay there for 90 days without really having to do anything. If you want to stay longer than that, you will have to get a residence permit which you can apply for IN Germany once you're there. However, you need a job offer in order to get this permit.
I know it would take money, but what about becoming nationalized, finding a job, etc.? I've never been, but I want to start a new life in a foreign country. I've been speaking German for nearly 7 years, and in 3 years I'll have my bachelors degree in German with teaching certification. From there, how do I make the move to Germany and get started fresh? And what if I have a cat? Thanks.
Other - Europe - 3 Answers
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Do you want to teach German in Germany? Do you have a grandparent that came from Europe? If so you came become a citizen of the EU.
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Travel there for a long period of time first. I'm talking like a month or more. Learn about the government, politics, LOCAL culture, economy, food, etc. etc. before you make the final decision. The language is the biggest barrier, and you've already mastered that. You'll love it, I guarantee it. To become a citizen, first you have to live there for eight years, seven if you take a course in integration. Also, you have to have little to no criminal record, be fluent in German, and have a job set up so you can support yourself. May I recommend Munich, the capital of Bavaria? Bavaria is what you would "think of" when you think of Germany. Mountains, cows and goats grazing on huge pastures, yodelers, accordions, beer, bratwurst, VERY friendly people, and beautiful countryside. Yet Munich is a huge, medieval city with many opportunities for a huge income, just like life in a huge American city.
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As a US citizen, you can come to Germany and stay there for 90 days without really having to do anything. If you want to stay longer than that, you will have to get a residence permit which you can apply for IN Germany once you're there. However, you need a job offer in order to get this permit.
Wednesday, September 7, 2011
Should I search for a job and take it just to make money, or should I wait to find the "right job?"?
Should I search for a job and take it just to make money, or should I wait to find the "right job?"?
I live in Germany, and am now fluent in the language. Right now, I am looking for a part-time job. My husband works full time, and I am looking for a job just to get me out of the house every day-I don´t have children yet, so the hours I can work are flexible. Should I take the first job I can get, even though it´s not something I really want to do-i.e. work in a gas station, or should I wait for the job that I would truly enjoy?
Other - Careers & Employment - 8 Answers
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Depends on how bad you need money.....if you don't need money....wait for the job you want!
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Depends on your financial circumstances...Beggars can't be choosers!
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Na ja, Arbeit ist nicht mehr als Arbeit. Du sollst arbeiten damit Du um deine Familie und Dich selbst kuemmern kannst. Veilleicht kannst Du ein Traumjob finden, aber ich glaube der Job wird Dich eines Tages entaeuschen.
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If you are going to work for the sake of working...very soon...you will have no idea why you started working for anyway. I work in Singapore's largest training company. One consistent phenomena we noticed as we teach entrepreneurship skills and finding passion at work is this. When people work in J.O.Bs that they are not passionate about, everything else in their life suffers. From health to creativity... basically, they experience a slow death. On the other hand, when a person passionate about a purpose/cause embarks on a business/work, then even Providence moves. Don't work to make a living. Work to make a difference.
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I would think that if you're looking for the "right job" and wait for it by not working in the mean time, it could look like you're too lazy to work and the boss with the "right job" might not hire you. Plus, it's always good to get out of the house and make some extra money.
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From what I remember from your recent questions, you have been applying for a number of jobs already. As you seem to be in the "luxurious" position to not to have to take on any job, get your local newspaper and check with the local branch of the Bundesagentur für Arbeit. You are an English native speaker, if you have ANY interest in teaching (children or adults) whatsoever, I'd suggest you offer your language skills in particular. You can always work as a shop assistant or waitress, but you have that "extra" qualification of speaking perfect English. That is your "plus" - which other applicants might not have. Did you think about checking with any Kindertagesstätte or pre-school nearby? You could come in for a handful of hours every morning, offering little English "lessons" to the kids there, they only want native speakers. Did you think about offering English courses at the local Volkshochschule? Offering private tutoring for school kids having trouble in English? If teaching is not for you, quite a few companies would be happy taking you on on a 400€/month basis doing office work, especially if you speak perfect English. I think your best option might really be to go see somebody at the Bundesagentur für Arbeit - they will go through a form with you, asking your for your qualifications and job experiences. If you are flexible when it comes to working hours, I'm sure they'll be able to give you a handful of ideas or even job offers straightaway. Good luck!
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I would pray and ask God to send you where he wants you to be a witness for him. And then wait on the lord...he will provide. That is what I do. Put the kingdom of God first and all other things shall be added unto you.
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Breezer - the best time to get a job is when you have a job... It's a good way to net work, try the local job market and better your professional German.
I live in Germany, and am now fluent in the language. Right now, I am looking for a part-time job. My husband works full time, and I am looking for a job just to get me out of the house every day-I don´t have children yet, so the hours I can work are flexible. Should I take the first job I can get, even though it´s not something I really want to do-i.e. work in a gas station, or should I wait for the job that I would truly enjoy?
Other - Careers & Employment - 8 Answers
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Depends on how bad you need money.....if you don't need money....wait for the job you want!
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Depends on your financial circumstances...Beggars can't be choosers!
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Na ja, Arbeit ist nicht mehr als Arbeit. Du sollst arbeiten damit Du um deine Familie und Dich selbst kuemmern kannst. Veilleicht kannst Du ein Traumjob finden, aber ich glaube der Job wird Dich eines Tages entaeuschen.
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If you are going to work for the sake of working...very soon...you will have no idea why you started working for anyway. I work in Singapore's largest training company. One consistent phenomena we noticed as we teach entrepreneurship skills and finding passion at work is this. When people work in J.O.Bs that they are not passionate about, everything else in their life suffers. From health to creativity... basically, they experience a slow death. On the other hand, when a person passionate about a purpose/cause embarks on a business/work, then even Providence moves. Don't work to make a living. Work to make a difference.
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I would think that if you're looking for the "right job" and wait for it by not working in the mean time, it could look like you're too lazy to work and the boss with the "right job" might not hire you. Plus, it's always good to get out of the house and make some extra money.
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From what I remember from your recent questions, you have been applying for a number of jobs already. As you seem to be in the "luxurious" position to not to have to take on any job, get your local newspaper and check with the local branch of the Bundesagentur für Arbeit. You are an English native speaker, if you have ANY interest in teaching (children or adults) whatsoever, I'd suggest you offer your language skills in particular. You can always work as a shop assistant or waitress, but you have that "extra" qualification of speaking perfect English. That is your "plus" - which other applicants might not have. Did you think about checking with any Kindertagesstätte or pre-school nearby? You could come in for a handful of hours every morning, offering little English "lessons" to the kids there, they only want native speakers. Did you think about offering English courses at the local Volkshochschule? Offering private tutoring for school kids having trouble in English? If teaching is not for you, quite a few companies would be happy taking you on on a 400€/month basis doing office work, especially if you speak perfect English. I think your best option might really be to go see somebody at the Bundesagentur für Arbeit - they will go through a form with you, asking your for your qualifications and job experiences. If you are flexible when it comes to working hours, I'm sure they'll be able to give you a handful of ideas or even job offers straightaway. Good luck!
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I would pray and ask God to send you where he wants you to be a witness for him. And then wait on the lord...he will provide. That is what I do. Put the kingdom of God first and all other things shall be added unto you.
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Breezer - the best time to get a job is when you have a job... It's a good way to net work, try the local job market and better your professional German.
Thursday, September 1, 2011
Which high power team is not going to make it out of the group stages, if you could put your money on one team?
Which high power team is not going to make it out of the group stages, if you could put your money on one team?
Who is in trouble? I put my money on England. Italy Spain Germany England
FIFA World Cup(TM) - 9 Answers
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I think italy isnt going to move on
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well ill germany even do spain lost itz last game and England's goal keeper missed the catch
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Italy aren't in bad shape. A win guarantees their passage. In fact, a draw should be enough as New Zealand are unlikely to pull off another upset. Germany are superior to Ghana. I expect Germany to emerge from the group as winners and Serbia as the other team. England are through with a win and should be able to handle Slovenia. If I had to pick one of the four teams, I would go with Spain. But honestly, I think all four of these teams make it through.
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You didn't give us France as a choice (LOL). I actually think all four of those listed get past the first round. If I have to choose one, it would be England. They will be feeling the pressure against the Slovenian team who have already beaten Algeria and tied the US.
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Italy and England
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england
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England. They are eliminated pretty much if the US beats Algeria. Even if the US only ties Algeria, they still have 2 goals over England in the total.
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England
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France without any doubt, but you did not list them. England is not a high power team, but rather the most overrated team. They are just an average team. So I do not consider them and do not care about them, but rather want them to lose asap. Italy are in trouble and could not score against NZ. First they got one but still struggles. So I think they will be out very soon, if not now but in R16.
Who is in trouble? I put my money on England. Italy Spain Germany England
FIFA World Cup(TM) - 9 Answers
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I think italy isnt going to move on
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well ill germany even do spain lost itz last game and England's goal keeper missed the catch
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Italy aren't in bad shape. A win guarantees their passage. In fact, a draw should be enough as New Zealand are unlikely to pull off another upset. Germany are superior to Ghana. I expect Germany to emerge from the group as winners and Serbia as the other team. England are through with a win and should be able to handle Slovenia. If I had to pick one of the four teams, I would go with Spain. But honestly, I think all four of these teams make it through.
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You didn't give us France as a choice (LOL). I actually think all four of those listed get past the first round. If I have to choose one, it would be England. They will be feeling the pressure against the Slovenian team who have already beaten Algeria and tied the US.
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Italy and England
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england
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England. They are eliminated pretty much if the US beats Algeria. Even if the US only ties Algeria, they still have 2 goals over England in the total.
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England
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France without any doubt, but you did not list them. England is not a high power team, but rather the most overrated team. They are just an average team. So I do not consider them and do not care about them, but rather want them to lose asap. Italy are in trouble and could not score against NZ. First they got one but still struggles. So I think they will be out very soon, if not now but in R16.
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